You might be surprised.

[ It's a murmur. Barbara isn't wrong, exactly, but: Bruce's family sees a very different side of him than his teammates do. And she and Kal have the privilege of seeing even a little more. ]

As for the one here... I imagine it's difficult coming to a place where a great many people say they know you, that you've adopted them and trained them and mentored them and more, without having any idea who they are. Those are quite the expectations to put on someone.